This is being written as I think so could be a small roller coaster ride here.
Is being nice sometimes not what your supposed to do? I only ask this because I seem to be known as one these people who is a 'nice guy', now that's cool, better that than; 'the guy who stares at my bum'. But it does make me wonder, what if I decided to be right wanker, how much would change? I've been thinking about the benefits of this and I've come up with a few. Selfishness is one thing i'm currently not at all, however if I was to be I think I would get a shit load further in life. It might turn me into a bit of knob, but when you look at people who are, there lives are pretty damn good. They became selfish to better themselves, and when you consider how far they can get with it, is it such a bad thing? And by selfish I don't mean just being rude to and not sharing chewing gum with people. Look at premiership rugby players, they are consumed by their sport, having to leave wives with new-born babies to go and play a sport, a sport that takes them all around the world without their family or friends, and they have to do that, yet they have got what they want and are succeeding where others have failed, because they were selfish enough in the first place??
I just think the way things are going at the moment the more selfish we are the better, surely self-improvement isn't a bad thing, do we always need to be considering everyone else?
I'm not saying i'm going to turn into a self-involved, ignorant, child sweet stealing, stiff upper lipped turd, but maybe if I treated myself as well as I treat others I would get on better. Do you consider others before yourself? Just a thought.
Drank grapefruit juice whilst I wrote this, the most sour thing in the damn world!!!